What does love mean?

2011年3月12日23:13:58 2 3,857 views

What does love mean?时间:2011年3月10日12时58分,云南省德宏州盈江县,发生5.8级地震,震源深度:10千米。截止今天在云南省盈江地震中死亡25人,其中包括5名学生,250人受伤。

时间:2011年3月11日13时46分,日本本州岛仙台港以东130公里处,发生8.8级地震,同时引发高达10米高海啸,震源深度:24千米。截止今天初步统计在地震和海啸中遇难及失踪人数超过1700人,确认遇难人数已增至564人,伤亡可能还会增加。

一幅幅画面,一帧帧视频,我们在短短几分钟甚至几秒钟时间里就看到了自然力量无情摧毁一切的恐怖!人类在灾难面前真真如同蝼蚁,瞬然之间无谓生命....相信每一颗心在这样的时刻总会有很多很多的感慨,号称“万物之灵”的人,平时所有的争斗,抢夺在此时变的渺小不堪,余下的只有对生命的敬畏!

不说如今人类对自然资源的过度开采和利用,不说2012是否真的是世界末日,不想去讨论地震发生在日本要不要去同情,只是想在这里说一句:为了生命,祈福吧!人类面对这长长的...短短的...未来的时候,对每一个逝去的生命存在或许都需要有一份宽容和理解!逝者已逝,渺若星河里一颗淡淡划过的流星。

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围脖上看到一段“张小娴说:女人想要的东西终归只有两样,很多的爱和很多的安全感。切,多少程灵素信了她的话从此踏上了苦海无涯的寻爱路,变成了李莫愁。有很多的爱,就代表有更多的不安全感。无爱最安全,因为没什么好失去的,就没什么好担心的。爱情是最危险的情感,可笑的是人们都在这里面找安全感。”看后回复:那是不是做灭绝师太最安全!?

相信每个人都曾在某个时刻问过自己这样的问题:到底什么才是爱情?什么才是真爱?到后来发现其实这个问题的答案从来都是无解。人生百年,日子算算不过三万多天。而你,已经度过了多少时间?你找到了心甘情愿平淡相守的那个人了吗?有人说男人花心是同一时间有不同的女人,而女人花心是不停的换男人。男人花心是寻乐,女人花心是寻爱。在这个过程里他(她)们都希望邂逅真爱。要说起来到底哪个最可怜又最可恨?今天qq上聊天里说道看到地震了吧,要知足知福。是啊,人生何其不该如此!时光辗转,岁月茫茫...原本就不容易!虽然说道忽然间死了ms少了痛苦,但是转头去想人来到这个世界是个偶然,这份冥冥当中的宿命总会有期期然的预计吧!自当珍惜一份真心。“真”起来不容易,也许,简单从来都是相对的一个概念吧!?

What does love mean?记得曾经看到过国外的一个小调查,由专业的人员去提问一群4-8岁的孩子,让他们回答:什么是爱?现在看来真的很值得这些所谓的大人们一看:

1. "When my grandmother got arthritis, she couldn't bend over and paint her toenails anymore. So my grandfather does it for her all the time, even when his hands got arthritis too. That's love."
Rebecca- age 8
"我奶奶得了关节炎,再也不能弯下来涂脚趾甲。于是我爷爷总是给她涂,甚至当他自己的手得了关节炎也是这样。这就是爱。"              丽贝卡- 八岁
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2. "When someone loves you, the way they say your name is different.You just know that your name is safe in their mouth."     Billy - age 4
"当有人爱上你,他说你名字的方式是不一样的。你就知道你的名字在他嘴里说出来感觉棒极了。"            比利 - 四岁
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3. "Love is when a girl puts on perfume and a boy puts on shaving cologne and they go out and smell each other."              Karl - age 5
"爱就是女孩抹香水男孩涂古龙水,然后他们出去,互相闻着。"                  卡尔 - 五岁
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4. "Love is when you go out to eat and give somebody most of your French fries without making them give you any of theirs."    Chrissy - age 6
"爱就是当你出去吃饭时,你把自己大部分薯条给某个人,而却并不在意他是不是也给你。"          克里希- 六岁
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5. "Love is what makes you smile when you're tired."                 Terri - age  4
"爱就是在你累的时候让你笑起来的东西。"              特里- 四岁
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6. "Love is when my mommy makes coffee for my daddy and she takes a sip before giving it to him, to make sure the taste is OK."  Danny - age 7
"爱就是当我妈咪给爹地泡咖啡,在给他之前先尝一口,看看味道是不是还可以。"              丹尼 - 七岁
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7. "Love is when you kiss all the time. Then when you get tired of kissing, you still want to be together and you talk more. My Mommy and Daddy are like that. They look gross when they kiss"         Emily - age 8
"爱就是你们一直接吻的时候。然后你们厌烦了接吻,但你们仍然想呆在一起,而且你们聊得更多。妈咪和爹地就是这样的。他们接吻的时候,看上去很下流。"                         艾蜜俐 - 八岁
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8. "Love is what's in the room with you at Christmas if you stop opening presents and listen."    Bobby - age 7
"爱就是圣诞节当你在房间里拆开礼物时,让你停下来去听的东西。"             鲍比 - 七岁
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9. "If you want to learn to love better, you should start with a  friend who you hate"  Nikka - age 6
(we need a few million more Nikka's on this planet)
"如果你想学着爱得更好,就应该从爱你所恨的人开始。"        妮卡 - 六岁
(在这个星球上我们需要千千万万更多的小妮卡们)
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10. "Love is when you tell a guy you like his shirt, then he wears it everyday."            Noelle - age 7
"爱就是当你告诉一个男孩你喜欢他的衬衫,他就每天都穿着它。"                           诺艾尔 - 七岁
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11. "Love is like a little old woman and a little old man who are still friends even after they know each other so well."             Tommy - age 6
"爱就像一个小老太婆和一个小老头儿,尽管他们彼此很了解,但却仍然是朋友。"             汤米 - 六岁
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12. "During my piano recital, I was on a stage and I was scared. I looked at all the people watching me and saw my daddy waving and smiling. He was the only one doing that. I wasn't scared anymore."            Cindy - age 8
"在钢琴独奏会上,我在台上,很紧张。望着台下,所有人都在看我。我看到爹地冲我挥手微笑,只有他一个人这么做。我就不再感到紧张了。"    辛迪 - 八岁
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13. "My mommy loves me more than anybody . You don't see anyone else kissing me to sleep at night."      Clare - age 6
"妈咪爱我胜过所有人。没有人像她那样在晚上吻着我入睡。"               克莱尔 - 六岁
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14. "Love is when Mommy gives Daddy the best piece of chicken."               Elaine-age 5
"爱就是在妈咪把最好的鸡块给爹地的时候。"                       伊莱恩 -五岁
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15. "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy smelly and sweaty and still says he is handsomer than Robert Redford."      Chris - age 7
"爱就是妈咪看到爹地一身臭汗的样子却仍然说他比劳勃·瑞福还帅。"                    克莉丝 - 七岁
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16. "Love is when your puppy licks your face even after you left him alone all day."                     Mary Ann - age 4
"爱就是你一整天扔下你的小狗狗不管,而它却仍然舔你的脸的时候。"                     玛丽·安 - 四岁
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17. "I know my older sister loves me because she gives me all her old clothes and has to go out and buy new ones."     Lauren - age 4
"我知道我姐姐爱我,因为她把她所有的旧衣服都给了我,而她却不得不出去买新的。"              劳伦 - 四岁
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18. "When you love somebody, your eyelashes go up and down and little stars come out of you." (what an image)     Karen - age 7
"当你爱上某个人,你的睫毛忽上忽下的,小星星从里面出来。" (这会是什么样子)                 卡伦 - 七岁
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19. "Love is when Mommy sees Daddy on the toilet and she doesn't think it's gross."     Mark - age 6
"爱就是当妈咪进卫生间看到爹地在里面,而她却并不觉得恶心的时候。"                    马克 - 六岁
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20. "You really shouldn't say 'I love you' unless you mean it. But if you mean it, you should say it a lot. People forget."       Jessica - age 8
"你真的不能说出‘我爱你’,除非你是来真的。但是一旦你是来真的,你就应该经常说。人们总是忘记。"     杰西卡 - 八岁
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21. And the final one -- Author and lecturer Leo Buscaglia once talked about a contest he was asked to judge.
The purpose of the contest was to find the most caring child.
The winner was a four year old child whose next door neighbor was an elderly gentleman who had recently lost his wife.
Upon seeing the man cry, the little boy went into the old gentleman's yard, climbed onto his lap, and just sat there. When his Mother asked what he had said to the neighbor, the little boy said, "Nothing, I just helped him cry"
最后一个 -- 作家兼讲师里欧·布斯加利亚曾经谈到一次比赛,当时他被邀去当评委。那次比赛是要评出最有爱心的小孩。获胜者是一个四岁的孩子,他的邻居是一位新近丧妻的老者。这个小男孩看到那个老人哭泣,便走进他的院子,爬到他的膝上,然后就坐在那儿。后来他妈妈问他对那个邻居说了什么,小男孩说:“什么也没说,我只是帮着他哭。”
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What does love mean?“也许...什么都是不确定的。不过不出意外的话有一点却已经注定:我们都在一点点逼近死亡的终点。所以,珍惜眼前,过好当下是比什么也许都更重要的事情。”自然卷how much里是这样唱的:how much i love you,how much i love you...you don't know,you don't know...谁爱谁啊?谁知道啊?

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